The Art Of Letting Go
One of the reason why people get so sentimental … It´s because, memories are the only things don´t change … When everything´s else does there are things in life that you can´t hold on forever, no matter how much you fight for. Sometimes destiny isn´t always good, it becomes playful when you met someone you learned to love, you thought that it was destiny who made your paths cross but what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny create ? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn´t meant to stay … But only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you´re already fallen. It´s not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love. Some might think it´s just an excuse … some might not actually believe some will blame you some might be even mad at you. What they don´t see is the fact that :
It hurts even more to hurt someone who doesn´t deserve to be hurt especially when you can´t actually state the reason why you have to leave.
You can never own something that was never yours so let´s stop gripping on things we expect to last forever. NOTHING lasts forever. Forever is a lie. Everything is transitory. So while you have something in your hand, put in mind that it´s just borrowed. So that someday when it´s gone, it won´t take you eternity just to let it go.
When your feelings get strong for someone, it´s always wise to stop for a while and give your heart
- a time to breath - a time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion. Because the saddest thing that can happen is when one fall in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship. Love can sometimes be magic but magic can sometimes be an illusion.
There are times when I wish that I was limited to certain emotions so that I´ll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or dissapointed and never get my fragile heart broken. But the same thing means that I´ll never know how it feels to love and to loved in return. The thought of it kind scares me. To have a heart that´s whole but numb or a heart that´s broken but real.
Someday, we´ll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight. Maybe when the time comes, we´ll be laughing at our old dumb selves … realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren´t really meant for us. But I guess learning take time and mistakes make one´s journey fun. Life is what we make it. Love makes world go round. So let´s live, love and take whatever pain it brings though it´s hard to wait around for something that I know will never happen. It´s harder to stop when I know it´s everything I´ve always wanted but you know what ? I´m glad. I´m glad it happened.
